Information on Victoria's Wish Foundation  / Sherolyn Brandt (Mother)

Here's a little update on what has been happening on the Victoria's Wish Foundation site. (www.victoriaswishfoundation.org)

I am just letting everyone who's interested in knowing that just recently I noticed with regard to the foundation that was created in honor of Victoria, certain people have tried their best to make sure that the foundation fails in its efforts to console and help others. 

Unsubstantiated and totally incorrect accusations and comments have been made on the internet which associate my name and the foundation as being misrepresentative of its true intentions.  I feel that these accusations replicate slander and deformation of character against me and the foundation.

If anyone is truly interested, I have sent condolences via a letter (I kept a copy) and two cards to the mother and father of the other two children who left this world with Victoria since the accident but they tell people that I haven't.  The truth is that they have never sent any condolences my way for Victoria.  It's so sad that Lisa and her family want to punish Victoria and me for their loss.

I was not in the accident and yet they apparently hold me liable and proceed to publically publish their unsubstantiated comments on the internet, either themselves or through others, who choose to beleive them.

FYI - Chris Brandt created the website in honor and memory of Victoria called "Victoria's Wish Foundation". Chris is a computer pro and created the website free of charge for me, but others are trying to destroy me and what we want to do through this foundation and question the cost of the creation of the website as opposed to paying fines.  I do not owe any fines and never have.

All we want to do is help others who might be suffering through similar circumstances and donations are only intended to be used to help provide financial assistance for the families who may need it for funeral expenses, counseling, creating memories for the families, etc.  The funds are not for personal use at all.  No one has made any donations to date and we feel it may be due to the inappropriate and hurtful comments of these people. 

FYI - Mr. Polite is not associated in any way with this foundation and lives elsewhere on his own and has since the day of the accident.  He has never been contacted for the truth as he knows it, just assumed guilty by circumstantial evidence which we all know can be wrong.  I feel that only God knows the truth of what really happened that horrible day.

This is an effort to clear up but a few of the misunderstandings of those who preferred to jump to conclusions and publish them on the internet rather than seek the truth.

Freedom of the press/internet to destroy others, due to lack of true investigation and seeing both sides of an issue, is wrong.  Neither the foundation nor myself have deserved this treatment and certainly Victoria was an innocent child and the disrespect for her through this whole things is unforgiveable and unwarranted.  But I trust God will intervene and let the truth be known in His time and in His own way.

I pray that the foundation will succeed and be available for those who may need its services.  Chris has so many talents with the computer and making pictures that he could surely create memories for families in this situation, their funeral services, the memory-of website, etc.  I have leaned on him heavily for this and I have good memories that will last forever thanks to him and his creativity.  He can do it for others and I will help.  The website reveals all of what we wish to do to help others if you choose to view it. 

May God Bless you all, each and everyone. 

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We all Love you Victoria  / Sherolyn Brandt (Mom)

Dear Victoria

On the anniversary of your passing, someone removed your memorabilia from the side of the road that I placed there, and I'm so sorry about that. I checked with the road department and they checked everywhere for it so I could get it back, but to no avail. I'm so sorry.  It's not that we have forgotten you because that will never happen.

On the good side of life, Victoria, God took you from us but before He did, He brought us Jazzy.  God Bless you for that.  This past Thursday, I received a call and I now have her sister, Hannah.  Jazzy asks constantly when will you get better and come home.  She misses you so much.  I am looking forward to seeing you in heaven where we can all be together again.  God has been good, Victoria and I am so glad to have had you in our lives.  None of us will ever forget you.  We all love you.

God will prevail and help us through the remainder of our life as we love him dearly and he has shown us two true miracles as seen in Jazzy and Hannah.  They are so very happy now to be together and we will always honor and remember you.  I cannot look at them without thinking of you.  I love and remember you everyday.  I didn't think life could go on after you left us, but God is showing me the way.  I truly hope that the family of the other two children will see that one day soon and let God lead them in their journey through life. I pray for them always.  I know it's hard for them too.  But I have done all I can do and am at a loss how to help them further. 

- Love Mom 

 

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sorry / Beth Higginbotham (relation to catherine gilcris her cousin before adoption )
Hey, You all probably dont remember me but I used to go with victoria almost everytime she went to Sherolyn house.My uncle is Rodger Aldrich he used to live with your son Chris. My aunt is cathy gilcris, and my uncle larry gilcris. I am seventeen years old now . I am so sorry about wat happened. i wish i could have been there for her but at that time i couldnt. i was just looking on google for her and thats how i got the news. I know we all had problems a long time ago but im not worried about that. I know she was  well loved by you guys.  And by my family too.  But can you let me know were her buriel site is so i can go visit her sometimes. That is if were allowed too. I understand if not. Me and my daddy used to take her everyday to go and get peanuts for her. i remember me and her and aunt sherolyn would always go to the picadilly restruant and eat.(That was her favorite place to eat.) Wee all had so much fun togeather. Victoria and i would get up every morning together and watch the Wiggles. Well your family and her are in my prayers.just please contact me back and let me know how you all are doing. God Bless you all for takeing care of her. Close

"Letter from Victoria"  / Melissa Kukar (Aunt Melissa )
To my dearest family & friends, some things I'd like to say but first of all, to let you know. I arrived okay.

I'm writing this from Heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here there's no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love. 

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.

That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through .God picked me up and hugged me and he said "I welcome you".

It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family & friends. They'll be here later on.

I need you here badly, you're part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.

And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you...in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and those loving years, because you are only human. They are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afriad to cry; it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you, all that God has planned. If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.

But one thing is for certain though my life if over. I'm closer to you now than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.

It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too; that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and in pain; then you can say God at night "My day was not in vain."

And now I am contented...that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along the way. I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low;
Just led a hand to pick them up, as on your way to go.

When your walking down the street and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go...from the body to be free.
Remember you're not going...you're coming here to me.

- Auther Unknown -
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To my dearest Victoria, 
It is coming up on the 1 year of your returning home. I know you are watching out for all of us left behind. I know we should be happy that you are there watching and guiding over us. However, we are sometimes very selfish and we want you here with us. Please know that you are in my heart and in my thoughts everyday. I have so many pictures of you at home and on my desk at work so I will never forget you. Page and Mackena talk about you all the time. They really miss you and your funny crazy games. lol. Everytime they see a Rainbow they say out loud, "Victoria, we miss you and love you!"  So please keep sending us yours rainbows so that we know you are there! 
With my greatest love,
Aunt Melissa, Uncle Bobby, Page & Mackena Close

Although time has passed...  / Cheryl (Friend)
Although time has passed, I'm sure it hasn't gotten much easier for you.  I want you to know, I still pray for you and think of you Sherolyn, and Victoria, and love you like a sister.  I know you will never be able to understand what happened to me this year, but even I cannot give you the answer, I don't have one.  I am, however, so deeply sorry to have put you through that.  I know that without words you know what I am talking about.  Please know that I would never ever mean to bring any more pain to your life.  I have always loved you like a sister, unconditionally and I continue to.  Be strong through your latest struggles and make Victoria proud.  She looked up to you, lplease allow her to keep doing so, she is watching over you.  I love you Sherolyn.  It has been truly and honor and a gift to have you as my friend.  Cheryl Close

I remember...  / Chris Brandt (Dadda)
I remember...Your beautiful cries as you were delivered from the womb,
The feeling that overcame me, in that cold hospital room.
I wondered how you would love me,
Or how I would love you,
Never knowing that our undying love ,would be stronger than any two.

I remember....your first steps in the living room,
You tried to steady, as you crossed the room.
Your hair in locks, your little smile,
I just sat and watched you, for the longest while.

I remember...You holding my hand in the convertible
You looked up to me and smiled,
I squeezed my hand tighter to show you love,
And you leaned over to rest your head for awhile.

I remember...When you asked me, if you could always call me dad,
The look that you were giving me, I could tell that you were sad,
But when I told you that that would never change,
You looked at me and smiled and said, "I love you dadda", 
which melted my heart and was the great love exchange!

You loved me so much, with the greatest love,
Love sincere and pure,
Our love still stands strong against even the strands of time,
That I know for sure!

(Victoria, My ability to make people laugh was your gift too! You always did want to be just like me, and you were. I love you and will always! I love you Sweet Pea!) 

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My Mom Is a Survivor!  / Aunt Melissa Kukar (Aunt to Her )
My Mom is a survivor,
or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night
when all others are in bed.

I watch her lay awake at night
and go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her
to help her understand.

But like the sands on the beach
that never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mom,
who thinks of me each day.

She wears a smile for others...
a smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see
tears flowing from her eyes. 

My mom tries to cope with death
to keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows
it is her way to survive. 

As I watch over my surviving mom
through Heaven's open door...

I try to tell her that angels
protect me forevermore. 

I know that doesn't help her...
or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
and show her that you care. 

For no matter what she says...
no matter what she feels.
My surviving mom has a broken heart
that time won't ever heal. 

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Aunt Sherolyn,
I know you struggle everyday more than anyone can say. 
I know your heart has been broken and I know it will take a while to heal. But just remember that we have been here for you since the beginning and no matter what we will continue to be by your side. Holding your hand, helping you continue your dreams, drying your tears or sometimes just letting them fall. We all miss Victoria more than words could EVER express but it gives me hope when I look to the sky everyday and know she is looking down from Heaven and watching out for our family. She was the most cheerful, happy, crazy, wonderful, thoughful little girl and I am very sure that she is the same way up in heaven probably making everyone up there crazy with laughter and probably driving them crazy with playing school and making up plays. Like it has been said before Victoria will lighten up a room the minute she walks in. That is why she was so loved by all. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I love you so much Aunt Sherolyn! You have been there for Sam and I for our entire life and we Thank you so much for everything you have done for us. You have always been so strong and I admire you for that. I know that you will have many difficult days but please remember that we are here to help you in any way that we can. Like I said even if it is just a shoulder to cry on. I love you! Melissa, Bobby, Page, & Mackena Close

To Those I love and Those Who Love Me  / Samantha Hechler (cousin)
When I am gone, release me, let me go.
I have so many things to see and do.
You mustn’t tie yourself to me with tears.
Be thankful for our beautiful years.
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness.
I thank you for love you have shown,
But now it’s time I traveled on alone.

So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must.
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It’s only for a time that we must past.
So bless the memories within your heart.
I won’t be far away, for life goes on.
So if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can’t see or touch me, I’ll be near
And if you listen with your heart, you’ll hear
All my love around you soft and clear.
And then when you must come this way alone,
I’ll greet you with a smile and say
“Welcome Home.”
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So Very Sorry for Your Loss  / Melissa Eiler (Visitor~Daughter of Irwin & Renee Eiler )

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Someone to watch over the children  / A. Friend
Someone once told me that all the mothers who could not have children here on earth are the ones taking care of our children in heaven, until we can join them.  I take comfort in that, I hope you can too.  I just wanted to share that with you.  Also, know that Victoria is watching you and loving you and is so proud of you.  She was always was you know and that hasn't changed.  Go on and live your dreams and while you are keeping her safe in your heart, remember, she is keeping you safe as well.  Close

Life will go on  / Someone Who Understands (a caring soul )
I just wanted to share this time with you.  I, too, lost a young child and I still and always will miss her and want her back.  I know that one day I will get see her and smell her hair and hear her laughter and feel her little heartbeat against mine.  It gets easier then one day it suddenly seems unbearable.  I know that if my my little girl were still here with me we would be laughing and doing all the fun "girl" things we could be doing that it now seems as though I took for granted.  I loved her more than life itself, but then I remember how much she loved life and that is what pushes me every single day to make her proud of me.  I know she would want me to laugh, because she loved to laugh.  I understand that Victoria has a little sister too.  I think she would want to know that her sister is happy and will be able to carry all the beautiful memories of her big sister with  her where ever she goes.  Remember, you can't see her, but she can see you and she wants to see you smile again.  You have a beautiful soul and a beautiful heart.  P.S. God said to tell you that He loves you and He is waiting for you to let Him take your pain so you can rest.   Love, A Friend  Close

"MOMMY" / Melissa Kukar ("Aunt Melissa" Cousin )
Don't cry for me Mommy,
I am right here
Although you can't see me
I see your tears 

I visit you often
Go to work with you each day
And when it's time to close your eyes
On your pillows where I lay 

I hold your hand and stroke your hair
And whisper in your ear
If you're sad today, Mommy
Remember I am here 

I am Mommy’s little girl
We will never be apart
For every time you think of me
Please know I'm in your heart. 

I Love you Mommy!
Your Baby Girl


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victoria / Camila (good friends with her cousin )
eventhough i didnt know victoria very well, i was invited by her cousin amanda to go to her grandmothers surprise party. during that time we stayed at victoria's house and i quickly learned to care alot about her. she was ALWAYS happy while i was there, always wanting to have fun, she'd always dress up and was the princess of the house. i noticed while i stayed there how loved she was and how lucky she was to be a part of such a close, caring group of people. to this day, i appreciate being able to share those few days with her and her family. I'll make sure to keep her and her family in my prayers.
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MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU  / Amanda Chastain (EXTENDED DAY TEACHER )

I MISS HER SO MUCH, IT IS SO HARD NOT TO SEE HER IN THE HALLS OR HERE HER SREAM ACROSS THE HALL HEY MS. AMANDA SHE WANTED A HUG. SHE WAS SUCH A SWEET AND OUT GOING GIRL I CANT BELIVE SHE IS GONE. I LOVE YOU VICTORIA AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH I MISS YOUR HUGS AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE. MS.AMANDA

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"And God Said"  / Melissa Kukar (Cousin "Aunt Melissa" )

“And God Said”

I said, God I hurt!
And God Said, I know!

I said, I cry a lot!
And God Said, That’s why I gave you tears!

I said, Life is so hard!
And God Said, That’s why I gave you loved ones!

I said, But my loved one Died!
And God Said, So did Mine!

I said, It’s such a great loss!
And God Said, I saw mine nailed to a Cross!

I said, But your loved one lives!
And God Said, So does yours!

I said, Where is She now!
And God Said, My Son is by my side and
Your Daughter is in my arms!

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You have my sympathy  / Cathy Smith (passerby)
More heart goes out to you and your family on the loss of your precious daughter.  Please know that she will always live on in the hearts of her family and friends. Close

A Brief Memory  / Tiffany Polite

Her mom said she was a leader.  I think back and smile and say to myself "yes she was", as I remember her stroll through street with her friends behind her.  Its hard to believe she is gone.  But she is amongst other angels who will love her just as much as we do.  Sherlyn, you continue to be strong but cry when you need to.  Our prayers are with you and daddy.  We love you both.
Love, Tiffany, Alex & Alaina

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I'll miss her...  / Mackenzie Hall (Friend & Former Classmate )

Victoria was a very good friend of mine.  She was always full of laughter, had a great, big smile and was a crazy, fun friend.  We went to school together at JAA until a few years ago, but kept in touch by phone and on the computer.  I miss her already and can't wait to see her in heaven someday.

Love, Mackenzie

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I will Miss You  / Amanda Chastain (Extended Day Teacher )

Victoria was in my extended day class. She was such a sweet girl. She always wanted to help me run errends and help the other children with homework.She was one of the toughfest kids i know she loved playing ball or chase with the boys. Iam so sorry and i will keep you in my prayers. victoria you will be missed. love you. ms.amanda

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